From Asher’s Desk

Long-term Friendships Among Men

Betting on Long-Term Friendships With Other Men—It’s a Worldview

If I could place a bet on who is going to last as a friend, I’d put all my chips on worldview. It’s a specific worldview. Now I look for it deliberately.

Advice on the Internet

The Death of Advice—We’ve Reached Saturation, Chief!

Aren’t you tired of it? 20 things you’re doing wrong. 4 things you need to know THIS MONTH! 5 tips to BECOME a man. To hell with it.

Romantic Comedies that Appeal to Men

Why We Roll Our Eyes at Rom-Coms

There ARE romantic comedies that get male attention. They’re just not the ones selling the most popcorn.

Men and sports

Deep down, we have a sense of manhood.

We weren’t surprised when other men thought highly of honesty, duty, self-reliance, exchanging value for value, and commitment to one’s word. This was once so common that we expected it in other men and were surprised and bewildered if there was NO shared sense of manhood.

Men and Manhood

There’s no easy definition of manhood.

The problem with pushing toward a definition is, once you have it, someone invariably forms a ‘cult’ around it, and proceeds to undermine everything it ever meant. Manhood is a thing to enjoy, laugh about, and admire, not a box.

Manhood is Not a Template

If we can’t talk about it, we’ve given up.

There’s an enormous center of decency, strength, and goodness among men. There’s nobility in genuine manhood, and we think it’s NOT necessary or productive to sit out the cultural mess and not lift a finger.

Manhearted Forum

We pay our way, all day long.

Paying our way, trading value for value (which is the heart and root of honest work), and dealing honestly with one another—these are manly virtues. They’re human virtues. And men value them.

Men and the Sea

Someone’s gotta look out and call “land”.

There’s something decent and right that makes us men. What that thing is, is a journey, not an absolute answer. There’s not ONE template for us.

Academic treatments of manhood.

Why I don’t rely on an academic version of manhood.

“You have any thoughts of your own on this matter? Or is that your thing: you come into a bar, read some obscure passage and pawn it off as your own idea just to impress some girls and embarrass my friend?” – Will Hunting

Stories of Manhood in Action

We’re better in a bundle than on the fringes.

Manhood can’t be conferred by a group. Political factions, cults, gangs, militias—these don’t make us men. They’re distractions. There’s no store-bought manhood. We’re told all that noise is manhood, but it’s suspiciously frail, fearful, and weak.


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